TINDER….

So apparently I just had a "move" put on me through Tinder and Facebook!

This is just plain creepy in my eyes.

So yes I have a Tinder account. Selfies and all. I've met a few guys on there in the last maybe 8 months. They have been nice and we have chatted and exchanged numbers long before we met up or have had friends in common. Even though nothing has quite worked out, I have been fortunate enough to not have any bad experiences… unless this counts.

So there is a guy on Tinder who has popped up quiet regularly and for some reason I keep swiping no. He's not ugly or weird, he doesn't have any fishing pics, FWD pics or a selfie with a tiger. trust me, there are far to many tigers on Tinder for my likings and they are not attractive.

There was just something about his photo that didn't appeal to me. So that's all good, no harm done.

Just the other day I received a fried request on Facebook from this random guy I've never heard of and with only one mutual friend, Its the guy from tinder! I questioned it. I sent him a message saying do I know you? His response was 'Oh sorry I thought I knew you but obviously not sorry!'

I checked the messages again and had missed the earlier one saying "Hey my tinder account is playing up so I thought we could chat through facebook"

Here's my concerns...

A: I have never had anything to do with you on tinder
B: How on earth did you find me on facebook with only my first name and a pic to go by
C: You are a freeky stalker and have creaked me out so even if I thought you were decent before... I certainly don't now!!!

So I text my friend, our one and only mutual facebook friend to get the low down. He said he works with him and hes okay. Apparently its the new move to get chicks chatting to you! Had we have already chatted on tinder this maybe would fly... maybe!

so he has got no response on tinder then stalked me on facebook and then lied about it all to get me to message him???

this dude must be hard up... amiright?

anyway! good lesson to learn, be very cautious  on social media! especially dating sites